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Is God Enough? Pt. II

Now, of course, my rational mind knows that God is more than enough. The very thing I’m searching for – love, fun, friendship, companionship, people to do life with, God gives to me 24/7, in ways seen and unseen. I know this. I’m sure of it.

When someone disappoints me, God is there following through on every promise.

When someone disappears from my life with or without explanation, God is at my very side.

When my heart is broken, Jesus himself whispers, “I love you,” in my ear while catching my tears in a bottle.

God is more than enough and more than present – he’s in it with me. But my sorrow distorts what I can see.

Why do I want these relationships so much? Something so substandard to what God reliably delivers.

It is better to love God – who always responds, never fails, never misses, and loves me completely and perfectly. It is better to want God more than anyone. I know this.

So, why do I even want anyone else?

Isn’t the desire for relationships built into my DNA?  We’re made to connect with others. When I remember Genesis and the  creation of man, I immediately think of God creating a companion for Adam, Eve. But there was a relationship that pre-dated theirs.

Before Eve, it was just Adam and God in bountiful Eden. Adam had a purpose, tend the garden, and an immediate companion, God.

At some point, God decided that Adam needed a companion that was “comparable” to him. Comparable meaning, equal. Someone on his level. And we know God was not that, not even in the slightest. God was and is higher.

God put the desire for a companion in Adam’s heart by allowing him to notice that the animals were in pairs. So, the desire itself is natural and intentional.

God did create a comparable companion for Adam in Eve. But that was after God and Adam had their own relationship. God created animals and Eve, at least in part, to add to what Adam already had, which was purpose and a relationship with God.

But what does that say about whether God is enough? Is just having God not meant to be enough? Or is something else at play here? This is where my deep thoughts take me, down a rabbit hole of infinite depths.

I made it out the other end with an answer, but not the insight to accompany it. In other words, I have the answer, but I don’t know why it is the answer.

Part III

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Is God Enough? Pt. III

Months ago, answering a question I hadn’t yet posed, the Holy Spirit told me that God was, in fact, enough for me. IS enough.

I didn’t understand it at the time. And to be honest, I still don’t, not completely.

But the blunders and triumphs in my relationships since then have reminded me of something important.

We are so imperfect. We try to give and get what we need from each other, only to bruise and break bones in the process. We apply sledgehammers to scenarios needing scalpels and bombs to tangled webs.

I’ve never met anyone who could love me perfectly in every situation – not friends, not family, not partners. Only God.

God has been my parent when I needed one, my best friend, bodyguard, lawyer, doctor, career counselor, therapist, voice of reason, and so much more. And that has taught me so much about God’s character, versatility, and love for me.

Because of these experiences, I am sure that God is the only one who can be everything to me. The only one stop shop, so to speak.

Other relationships have their place, but this one is irreplaceable. When I have a need and I seek God to fill it, it’s as good as done, no matter the details.

And that’s when it hits me.

Yes, God IS enough. But God won’t demonstrate that quality unless I do the seeking. I have to invite God into the empty space that needs filling.

When I don’t look to God for what I need, even relationally, I expect other humans to love me perfectly. Inevitably, I am disappointed and find myself back at square one until I am desperate enough to call God directly.

God is enough. But why is God enough?

Because God is the only one who can be everything, filling every kind of gap there is, at all times. I don’t know how or why. I just know that God is able. All I have to do is ask.

And that’s enough. 💜

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Is God Enough? Pt. I

Thump, thump, thump.

My thumbs vibrate against my phone’s touchscreen as I navigate to the Creatorskind Instagram page. I’m looking for some encouragement.

I find it in a recent post, added after a long hiatus. Littered with buzzing bees for emphasis, it says, “Just be. I’m in it with you. – Jesus.” This is the reminder, the calming salve I needed.

I’m heartbroken. There’s someone in my life that I had to release, actually, more than one. And it hurts.

I’m tempted to believe that no one understands, that I’m all alone in this, and that no one hurts more than me. But that’s not true – not today, not ever.

And the Holy Spirit who, thankfully, lives within me, is more than willing to remind me of this eternal fact. I am not alone. Though I can’t see it tangibly, I know that Jesus is in it with me.

In the grieving over what could have been.
In the back-tracking and over-thinking.
In the worries about what the future might bring. In the ups and mostly downs, he’s there, riding the waves with me.

Then I remember something that stops me in my tracks, realizing it could ONLY be the Holy Spirit reminding me that, I asked for this… all of it.

Isn’t this outcome wrapped in my prayer for discernment? My prayer for wisdom? My prayer for courage to make the hard choices and do the hard things?

I didn’t expect things to turn out this way. Division. Separation. The parting of ways.  Never in a million years. But, yes. I asked for all of this.

In response, God gave me what I asked for. Not for better or worse, but always for my good, because that’s all God does.

And now, with the details brought into focus and the hard decisions made, it’s just me and God again.

But in my sorrow, the question that occurs to me is this: Is that enough?

Part II

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Back to the Basics Pt. II

🎶Social media’s affecting my obedience 🎶


The lyrics of Franchesca’s song, Time Away, couldn’t be more true. For her, it was Tiktok. For me, it’s been Instagram, Facebook, and even Reddit. At the end of a long day, it’s the first few minutes after dinner where a quick jaunt across the internet seems harmless. But too soon, the sentimental feeling that follows a clip of The Cosby Show has me chasing a high. Before I know it, I’m up scrolling three hours past my bedtime.

It didn’t seem like that much time had passed. Yet, here I am. And now, with less time for rest between now and tomorrow’s workday, I realize my mistake. I played myself, and tomorrow, I’m going to suffer.

When I wake up the next morning, I find it all to be true. Groggy and slow, it takes more effort to get up and get going. After hitting the snooze button again and again, I finally pop up half an hour (or more) later. I’m not late, not really. I’m tired and may have to rush a bit, but I’ll still make it to work (mostly) on time. It’s no big deal, right?

Wrong.

Those few hours of scrolling cost me something precious. What,  you ask?
My quiet time in the morning with God.

Instead of waking up and having the time to reach for my Bible for a little quiet contemplation of my God and some journaling, I’m headed straight to the shower. My mind is focused on the ten things I need to do to get ready and out the door. Not the qualities I admire about my savior.

I listen to worship music as I get ready and the word on my Bible app along my commute, just because. I’m not trying to win brownie points. It’s not about whether it “counts.” I’m trying to fortify myself with the word. But still, it isn’t the same.

My quiet time with God clears my head. It centers me like nothing else can. In the past, it has armored and fortified me in ways I couldn’t see until years later. Truthfully, it sets me up for a day of internal peace despite any chaos happening around me. This isn’t hyperbole. It’s direct experience.

Less than ten years ago, I worked in an extremely toxic environment where land mines existed in nearly every interaction. And where I intended to or not, I set them off regularly. When I reflect on my time there, I’m amazed at how I made it through. Despite many, many opportunities to lose my cool, I didn’t take the bait. I wasn’t in therapy or on medications at the time. But I did keep a regular early morning and pre-bedtime date with God and my journal.

Truly, the value of my morning quiet time with God really can’t be overstated. Yet, I’ve neglected it, this quality time that only benefits me, for what… the black hole of social media? For entertainment? If I can even call it that.

All the other stuff plays its part. Worship and listening to the word is necessary and has its place. But, like them, journaling my prayers to Jesus is it’s own thing.

It’s those hours scrolling, wasting time that could’ve been spent in almost a million more productive ways that robbed me of the peace that comes from that quiet time in the early hours of the day. I could’ve been sleeping instead. Then, I could’ve actually woken up with the time and energy to tackle the most important moment of my day.

Even a blind person can see that a break is in order. So, I’m cutting the chord, at least temporarily, and removing another barrier between me and the peace I’ve been seeking. Thankfully, based on God’s track record, I know God will be there to welcome me back. 💜

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Back to the Basics

A slow buzzing enters my dreamscape, silky piano notes following close behind.  My hazy dreams pass away as my brain registers the sound and I open my eyes. It’s my alarm. Hitting snooze, I turn over, hoping for a slow five minute reprieve before facing the day.

The next time I open my eyes, it’s without prompting, nearly 30 minutes later. Crap! Already, I’m running late. But instead of running to the shower, I unlock my phone.
I’m not headed to IG, a news or music app. Instead, I open my Bible app.

This old habit is one I’ve struggled to maintain over the last year. Talking to God every morning in my journal, offering praise and gratitude and dissecting the promises in the word would normally take, at least, an hour.  And I’d still have a hard time pulling myself away.

Spending this kind of time with God almost every single day fortified me in a way that I’m only noticing in it’s absence. I have a nagging suspicion that this shift is why I’ve been struggling with doubt and intense anxiety so much more lately. 

Instead of running to my Bible or my knees in worship, I’m usually running to the shower and flying through the rest of my morning routine. No quiet contemplation of ancient promises. No confession of the worries that attacked me the minute I awoke. No songs of praise to welcome the divine presence into my space.

Now don’t get me wrong, I still speak to and honor the Most High. But worried pleas for help sandwiched between the lyrics of worship songs as I make my way to work doesn’t have the same effect. And the difference is staggering. The worries and workplace chaos that rise up over the course of the day shake me in ways I havent experienced in years.

When I think about it, I see that the most dire and difficult times in my life also happen to be when I felt the closest to the Most High. But now, in the midst of all this anxiety and struggle, God feels far away. Knowing what I know about God, through study, but mostly experience, I know it’s not because God is too busy, tied up elsewhere. It’s because I am.

Somehow, right before I started my current job, I let things slip. My daily appointment with God became a less crucial, less regular kind of thing that evolved into whatever rushed, sometimey, inconsistent thing it is now.

I still play worship music.  I still talk to God throughout the day, like God is right beside me, because I believe that God is. I still journal my prayers. I still read the bible… Just, not as frequently or with the same fervor I once had, not with that desperate need to include God in every aspect of my day in a variety of ways.

Nothing has been the same since. Why should it be? I can’t expect God to give me more faith, more peace, more anything, while I offer less and less. God is full of grace. So our gracious God may still provide more and more, but that’s not at all fair. And it’s not something I would accept.

Eventually, we all get tired and no one wants to be taken advantage of by anyone, even those they love. While the Bible says that God neither sleeps nor slumbers, so therefore doesn’t get tired, we do know that we get on the Most High’s nerves. THAT fact, is all over the Bible for our education (and sometimes entertainment). But that’s not a dynamic that I want in my relationship with God and I mean that wholeheartedly.

So, I’m recommitting myself, getting back to the basics with my God – making worship, prayer, and reading the Bible a priority again. I don’t expect to be perfect at it – 100% consistent from the jump.

But I do expect that consistency to grow and that comforting sense of closeness to God to return over time. Because I suspect that I’m not the only one who’s noticed a difference in our relationship. I’m almost certain that God’s been patiently waiting for me to notice and make a u-turn this whole time, right from the start. I’m sure that God’s BEEN ready, and now, I am too. 💜

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Doubting the Doubt

It’s raining. And it’s pouring. But despite all of that, I’m rushing from the cube farm where I work to my car in a panic. I feel a migraine coming on and, with it, an intense and unyielding fear. The tense muscles in my shoulders and lower back echo the ugly thoughts bouncing off the walls in my head.

“You’re not good enough. You’re in over your head. You’re gonna fumble this and expose the imposter at your core. Quit now while you still can.”

As you know, the devil be devilin’ – waging a battle in my mind that paralyzes me, at least, for a time. 

As does my inner critic who often berates and beats me down, while trying to protect me from further pain. It’s a tough room.

Yet, being well aware of all this, I’m still shook over here.

I am completely overwhelmed by fear that I will fail at this important project, despite God’s promises to help and my years of experience with God as evidence.

I am afraid that I’m too broken for God to use me for something great. I’m afraid that God is powerful. But not powerful enough to keep the promise using me. Anyone else, sure. But me? Not at all.

I am filled with fear and all of this doubt sprouts from that highly charged place.

I’ve been struggling with these thoughts from day 1 and they have only grown more intense. But then yesterday, the Holy Spirit reminded me that fear isn’t real. And then like hitting a switch, I remembered that fear acronym. Fear is False Evidence Appearing Real.

As this realization began to sink in, I realized that fear is a mirage – an illusion, like the appearance of water in the glaring sunlight. It’s not anything to trust or build a foundation on.

It’s a trick of the enemy because there is no fear in love. And I know that I am deeply loved by my creator.

It brought me back to something I’d heard countless times, but never really understood. In my prayers, the phrase “doubt the doubt” kept appearing in my mind. I’d heard joyce meyer say it years ago and hadnt really thought about it much since then. Despite hearing it over and over for a year or more in my prayers, I never quite understood it. Until now.

Remembering that fear is a mirage, a 4D IMAX level illusion, IS doubting the doubt. It’s questioning its authenticity, validity, and its motives. It’s saying, “Nah, I don’t believe you. You’re not real.” And in doing so, slapping the enemy in the face and making him kick rocks.

So, I doubt that doubt… until the next time.

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God is GOOD

I AM GOOD

You don’t have to understand it for it to be true.

My thoughts are higher than yours. As are my ways. Trust me,  you won’t get it. But I am still good. In fact, I am the very definition.

I AM GOOD.

I’m the only one who truly is. Others try to act like they are good, but they can’t pull it off. How could they? They really aren’t even sure what it is to be good. Why?

Because they’re not me. I’m the one who decides.

I AM GOOD.


I am the standard – my ways, my thoughts. And who but me and the closest ones to me – my spirit and my son – could know that so well? 

Good is what I bring forth in the earth. The creatures made to my exacting standards. The systems within you and around you that always strive toward balance – the original symphony.

What is not good is what so often happens once what I’ve created is in the hands of people. But I AM STILL GOOD.

I take what you’ve ravished and destroyed, and breathe life into it until it becomes a new thing – a good thing, again.

With my refreshment, it brings to the world the good that I imagined it would. And it spreads near and far. It does all that I intend.

And because I am good, I’ll do the same with you. 💜

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From Doubt to Faith

Doubt is a place.

When I think about doubt, I imagine a physical space, an actual place. It’s desolate, gray and windswept with bare trees and flying dust instead of firm, rich soil – a place completely devoid of life. This place is where I end up whenever my trust Issues show up in my relationship with God.

Despite knowing that God is good and having plenty of evidence to back it up, I still question God’s faithfulness – whether God will show up in my most desperate moments. I even second guess the seal of approval that I inherited from Jesus. My anxiety sometimes overruns my faith, and when I look up, I’m in that gloomy, desolate place. In doubt, the creativity, clarity, wisdom and peace that I need to navigate life seems impossible to access.

My last post was a retelling of a recent dream. In it, I stood on a modern version of the biblical Noah’s ark. I was being whisked away from a place of danger and loss. Yet, anxious about all that I’d left behind, especially who and what they might think, I had lept into the water, intending to return to that forsaken place.

In jumping, I had rejected the safety of the Ark and the promise of something better wherever it was headed. And it wasn’t until I found myself carried away from the ship that continued onward without me that I realized how bad an idea that had been.

Though I busily treaded water to stay afloat, the hazy gloom of doubt within me – the doubt that had caused me to jump – made it impossible to know what to do next. I was stuck and alone. But then, the most amazing thing happened.

Jesus, who I hadn’t even realized was there, dove in after me.

Just like the shepherd searching for the single sheep who had wandered away from the flock of 99 others.

I didn’t even have to ask…

He found me, barely held together. Yet, after the considerable effort of reaching me, I was surprised to see that his demeanor didn’t show even a speck of frustration or anger. 

In fact, all I saw in his eyes was concern and clear-eyed understanding. My only response had been love, gratitude, and … wonder. Then, I woke up.

Well over a month later, it still blows my mind. I mean, what kind of love is this?

It’s teaching me that God’s love for me is thorough and unbreakable. This God knows me intimately, and none of what I do is a surprise or a burden that God is unwilling to bear with me or help me navigate. It’s helping me to see that there’s no scenario where God won’t show up, even in doubt. And it’s recharging my faith.

What about you?

How has God shown up in your doubt? 💜

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In it with me

A cloudy gray sky hovers above my head. I’m so high up that I wonder whether I can grab a piece. Its clouds conceal everything above and most of what surrounds me.

Its particular shade of gray is only slightly lighter than the gunmetal coloring the expanse beneath my feet. I’m on a ship – a giant machine sprawling around me. But it’s not just any ship.

It’s an ark, like Noah’s, with no discernable openings, yet here I am perched on its surface. The ship cuts through the choppy and frothy mix of gray and white waters below. The water, like the sky above and the ship in between, seems endless.

Though everything about this scene denotes solitude, I am not alone. There are others on a different quadrant of the ships surface, laughing and lounging in swimwear despite the gloom around them – living as if the sun is on full display.

They may as well be a million miles away from me or in another world even. But they don’t capture my attention for long. My mind is occupied by thoughts of those I left behind. People, places, things, and especially, what others may be thinking.

So, I jump.

Crashing into the choppy water, I sink just a little, the force of my weight pressing me down, then bouncing me back up to the surface. Once my head reaches the surface, I am immediately overwhelmed. I didn’t have a plan B. I didn’t think about what I’d do next. And so I have little choice but to let the water carry me wherever it chose.

I flow backward towards structures that I can only see now, at this level, on the water.  I hear a distant splash as I nearly float past the corner of a giant brick wall to my side. I grab it and hold on for dear life. Behind it, I can see what looks like a flooded city, empty and silent. I turn to look toward the sea, at the rear of the Ark moving swiftly away, and I see something headed my way. I freeze in place, anticipating the worst.

As it gets closer, I can see that it is a person, a person swimming. Then, I see that it is someone I recognize. It’s someone that I know. And at once, I feel wonder, relief, and to my surprise, love – genuine and heartfelt. Tears overrun my eyes and fall into the churning waters around me as he swims close.

It’s Jesus. He came in after me.

He swims to the wall where I am anchored in place with a look of concern and understanding on his face. He knows me. He knows why I jumped. And he knows that I have no idea what I am doing. Yet, he’s here anyway, in it with me. 💜

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Taking the Credit

Beads of sweat gather on my forehead and course toward my eyes, trying to blind me with their saltiness.

Squat. Push. Press.

Squat. Push. Press. Squat…

I push my butt down toward the floor and pump my body up, raising the weights in my hands above my head as I come up. I’ve been at this for a minute, huffing my way through a couple of 12 rep sets. The painful tension across my muscles is a good pain.

It feels good to sweat. It feels good to be back in the gym after a long hiatus… after completely falling off the wagon once again.  It’s been several weeks in a row now and I’m proud of myself.

Squat. Push. Press.

I watch myself in the mirror and think about how well my new job is going, how my hopefully well-rested brain is managing all that I’m learning day to day. I think about how life seems to be getting better in general, after the intense difficulty of the past 12 months.

When my thoughts return to the tension in my muscles, I consider, with inward approval, how I’m back at it – banging out consistent muscle-building workouts in the gym.

And with words I no longer remember, I say to myself some version of “Girl, you did that!”

“YOU?” – I hear, not with my ears, but inwardly, and immediately know that I’ve screwed up.

I pause mid-air. “Uh, I mean, um, not in that way. I know it’s always you God.”

The boastfulness of the moment before has evaporated in even less time. But it’s still too late. The contents of my heart have spilled out and it is not good.

I hadn’t even made it through a single project at work or rebuilt a muscle to flex, and here I was, already trying to take the credit.

God had led me to stop working, I thought, for a short time. Then I had actually lost my job because I couldn’t return full time. I wasted money on an expensive medical treatment that didn’t work. And blew through my savings and humble unemployment benefits. Yet, I didn’t miss one meal, therapy appointment, or essential medication, nor did I need to run from any bill. I was covered, completely.

By the time God told me to return to work (away from my prior employer) and I landed a job over six months later, I’d had plenty of evidence that I wasn’t the reason that I was still standing. The struggle had been real and I knew that the only reason I hadn’t lost it was because of God’s being in it with me.

There’s a reason the Bible says that pride comes before a fall (Proverbs 16:18).

Because it does. 

After that fateful day at the gym, before I even knew what was happening, I was off the wagon again – at home snacking and sleeping instead of putting in work at the gym. Unruly hormones ravaged my skin and my sense of normalcy, making me moody, exhausted, stuck in my negative thoughts and even more anxious all at once.

I experienced some scary deja vu as I was back to feeling bone tired after work, struggling to concentrate, getting easily confused by what I read and finding it difficult to follow along in conversations. I had fallen far and it was terrifying.

But why? I’d had the memories of the last year etched into my psyche. I didn’t need to relive them in order to be reminded of their difficulty or how I had needed to cling to God to help me through each and every day.

Or so I thought.

I bounced back, but apparently, I did need that reminder, and it was nothing nice. Thankfully, I know that getting the lesson now saves me from having to repeat it later. That is, if I don’t forget again.

Thankfully, this is the kind of God we have. One who doesn’t share the credit for miracles. But who also won’t abandon us when we forget to give credit where it’s due or, even, when we try to steal it for ourselves.

💜